James 4:1-3

Where do the wars and fights among you come from? Don't they come from the passions that war within you? You want something, but you do not get it. You kill for it, you covet it, but are unable to obtain it. So you fight and make war. You do not have - because you do not ask. You ask, but you do not receive because your motives are all wrong since you ask for your own pleasures.